Wednesday, October 10, 2012

Our Sweet Rooney

 When I think about my childhood home, so many great memories come to mind. And I hope that our children feel the same way about this house. One thing that will always stick with me and Grant is what happened last Friday night when our daughter was born here.

That day, I worked from home as usual. By late afternoon I wasn't feeling great and when Grant got home I complained to him about what I thought was just some severe gas. We ate dinner and went for a walk but these pains were starting to form a pattern; about two minutes apart and lasting 25-30 seconds. I called my midwife, Bobbi, and she said to call back in an hour with more details. I worked through contractions and called back. She said she was coming over to check me out. That call was placed at 7:30pm. She arrived around 8:15pm and informed me that I was dilated 5cm. Progress! I was relieved.  My contractions picked up BIG time and 30 minutes after her initial check I was at a 9. I think I was in denial that things were progressing so quickly. It really started to sink in when Bobbi placed a call to her partner telling her to come on over but that she wasn't going to make it in time for the birth. We were about to start pushing! Rooney came out in 8 minutes. My whole labor lasted three hours. I guess she was just ready to see the world.


We're so thankful to have such a wonderful little family. I'm excited to watch Clive and Rooney grow and play. So this house may be old, but it still has a lot of life to live in it. 



Wednesday, October 3, 2012

The Half Bath: Part 1

So this happened today:








Dad called this morning and very generously offered his services and brute old-man strength to tear out our old vanity cabinet and replace it with the one we just purchased. Clive really enjoyed the demolition and general chaos that ensued. 




Part 2 will be building shelves on either side for storage. I'm just happy that our sink doesn't look like it belongs in a backwoods North Carolina truck stop anymore. 

We marveled at our progress and then ran out to do a few errands. I sat down and opened up my blog to update with this post but then heard something that sounded like a bath running. When I went in our room to investigate I discovered that one of the supply lines had come loose and hot water was pouring out all over the floor. 




So the bathroom had one more surprise for us tonight but hey, what's a house project without a minor catastrophe? No fun at all. At least the floor is nice and clean now....


Saturday, August 11, 2012

The Kids' Room

We pulled an all-nighter (pretty much) to paint Clive and Baby's room and learned in the process that we're not fans of Valspar paint because it's dumb and doesn't cover very well. We thought we'd finished this painting adventure at midnight and exhausted, went to bed  looking forward to the next morning when we could arrange furniture and hang things but discovered super patchy paint on ALL the walls. Bummer. So we did a coat this morning and we wipe our hands of this project; crappy looking or not. At least the walls are the desired color now and not off-white anymore.

Grant rigged this TV set-up for us to watch the opening ceremonies of the Olympics :) 

Hug break



These photos are a few weeks old. We learned our lesson in trying to paint EVERYTHING in the same day.  So Grant just did the trim on this night. 
This guy is the end of the roller handle that almost claimed Clive's life last night...ok, not really. It just snapped off while Grant was rolling the ceiling and smacked Clive in the arm; not so much hurting him as scaring him to death. Poor little buddy.

How does painting always end up this messy?









And the [almost] finished product! I still have a few pictures to hang and want a wall shelf for Clive's books. Way better than before though! 



Wednesday, July 18, 2012

Random Birthing Post




I guess since I'm pregnant right now I've been thinking a lot about giving birth lately. And I tend to read up on birthing methods and such because I'm a dork. Anyway, here are a few thoughts I have about the matter:


Birth

I've always known I'd give birth naturally. I suppose it became a conscious decision once I became pregnant with our first child; and this too might have been spurred by my mother having birthed all three of us naturally (and two at home); so I didn't find the idea so hard to digest. Not until my pregnancy and the prodding of friends and acquaintances for birth/labor details did I discover what a taboo subject natural childbirth is. I usually don't even discuss the subject (unless someone brings it up and asks my opinion) because I know it's offensive to some and they get defensive in turn. But it's actually something I'm very passionate about and proud of having accomplished. I also find it silly that so many are opposed to hearing about natural birth, because it's the way it was intended to be from the beginning and like it's name, a natural process. So I thought I'd share some medical facts, not opinions, from what I've read over the years so that those who don't understand where I'm coming from might have a clearer picture of my objectives.

Number One: Induction

Early induction rates in the U.S., without medical necessity, are between 5% and 40%. Most studies show that the leading cause of early induction is that the mother is “just ready for the pregnancy to be over with”. The only medically backed reason for inducing would be because of a preexisting health condition for mother or baby. This would include but is not limited to heart disease, seizure, cancer, hypertension, diabetes or a congenital defect in the baby that the doctor has become aware of. Having said that, it's still possible to give birth without being induced even with one of these conditions.

Another common reason for induction is that the baby is “too big”(Macrosomia) or the mother is “too small to deliver” (a rare condition called Cephalo-pelvic Disproportion). Macrosomia only affects 1-10% of all babies. But the most common reason for early induction is an “overdue pregnancy”. A 40 week gestational period is thought to be how long most women carry a child, but the national average for a first time mother is 41 weeks and 1 day. 37 weeks is becoming the new average to many obstetricians because it's considered full term but those last weeks of development are crucial for liver, lung and brain growth. The American Congress of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG) recommends an early induction no earlier than 39 weeks to ensure proper fetal development. Sadly, doctors often trade size for development based on guess work and ultrasounds that can give a rough estimate of how big they think the baby is towards the end of pregnancy. This measurement is commonly incorrect.

Number Two: Epidurals

Epidurals are an analgesia, used to target a specific area to block pain but not sedate a patient. The use of an epidural during labor is for pain relief so the mother doesn't feel anything. There are advantages and disadvantages to this.

The only real advantage to an epidural is that you can't feel the pain that comes with giving birth.

Disadvantages to having an epidural:
  1. Drop in blood pressure
  2. Headache from spinal fluid leak (this is very rare)
  3. Soreness from being unable to change positions easily
  4. Nausea
  5. Numbness after the epidural is supposed to have worn off
  6. Surgical intervention for delivery
  7. It can cause labor to slow down or stop altogether
Most women overlook these possible side effects in exchange for comfort during labor. However, sometimes epidurals aren't as strong as they should be and the mother ends up feeling labor anyway. Catheters are necessary as well since the mother can't move about on her own. Patients also rely on nurses and doctors to tell them when they need to push when under epidural anesthesia whereas in natural birth, the mother feels the urge to push on her own. There's less chance of tearing this way. This leads us to our next topic.

Number Three: Episiotomies

An episiotomy is an incision to widen the opening of your vagina to assist in birth. Many doctors feel it's better to administer an episiotomy instead of risking a vaginal tear. However, tearing is not guaranteed and recovery is after an incision has been made. Patients must be stitched up after this procedure and given additional pain medication.

There are ways of avoiding an episiotomy like perineal massages before and during labor, not lying flat on your back while pushing and Kegel exercises to name a few.

Number Four: Narcotics during and after birth

Lortab- Classified as a Category C (Category A being the safest) drug by the FDA for pregnant and/or nursing mothers. This means it is not safe to take. Studies have shown respiratory distress in infants who’s mothers used this drug during pregnancy.

Ibuprofen- Category C drug and Category D after 30 weeks of pregnancy. This means it is not safe to take while pregnant or breastfeeding.

Pitocin- A synthetic version of Oxytocin; a natural hormone found in the body that starts labor. This drug is used for inductions. Pitocin is listed as a Category X drug by the FDA. I will give their definition:

Category X

Studies in animals or humans have demonstrated fetal abnormalities and/or there is positive evidence of human fetal risk based on adverse reaction data from investigational or marketing experience, and the risks involved in use of the drug in pregnant women clearly outweigh potential benefits.
I mention these three drugs specifically because they're the most commonly used with laboring women.

Warning! Opinion Section

I've had so many conversations with individuals who are pro-medicated births that have called me stupid or crazy that I can't even count them. They don't understand why someone wouldn't take advantage of medical advancements or pain killers when they're offered to you freely in a hospital. But I don't agree with a lot of them and think most are totally unnecessary. Medicine is something you take when you're sick. Being pregnant isn't like having cancer; you don't need treatments. One constant with most obstetricians, midwives and nurses for pregnancy is to be very cautious about what goes into your body as far as drugs are concerned so you don't endanger your baby while it's developing. But then all these really strong drugs are administered during the birth! They still reach your placenta and ultimately your baby. I don't say those things to chastise women who have used or are planning to use drugs during labor. It's deeply unsettling to me that women are unaware of the risks of the procedures and medications associated with many hospital births. And I understand why they aren't worried. Their doctor tells them it's fine to take and why shouldn't you trust a doctor? They're highly skilled and trained in their practice. I'm not at all saying doctors are bad or can't deliver babies or anything of that nature, I'm just stressing the importance of doing research for yourself so that you know what's best and can form your own opinions. I'm SO thankful for medicine and technological advancements. My first birth was at a midwifery inside a hospital and my son came a whole month early. We had no idea what was going on and it was very reassuring knowing that if there were an issue, people and medicine would be there to help out. Thank God nothing was needed, Clive was just fine and I was able to have the natural, non-medicated birth experience that I wanted for us.

We're about to have our second child and we're doing it in the quiet and comfort of our own home. I'm not a nature quack that's anti hospital, it's just what we wanted. I can't even tell you how excited I am about it either! No staff, no beeping or other hospital noises, no disruptions...just me, my family and my midwives. I believe giving birth is intuitive; I believe a woman's body is perfectly equipped for everything it needs during labor. That's how we were made. I personally like to feel contractions, not because they feel good but because they're an indication of how my labor's going and a warning sign that baby is on it's way out. I always hate when people tell me, “You don't win any awards for doing it without medicine.” That's not the point. It's not about personal glory or showing off; even though I think it's something to be admired for and a great sense of personal achievement, just as running a marathon is an awesome accomplishment.

So bottom line, women have babies every day. It's your decision how you birth, where you birth and who's present and assisting you. As a true, totally engrossed geek and lover of births and all the processes that go with it, I just ask that you do your homework and know why your care provider is recommending what they're recommending and what's in the medicine they're prescribing and how that can affect you and your baby. Happy birthing!



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Saturday, June 23, 2012

The Master

We painted our room today....aaaand it took the whole day. We did ceilings, trim and color AND clean-up AND a trip to Lowe's in between there somewhere. But we feel very accomplished and are glad to say that we no longer have periwinkle walls. Let's refresh your memory as to what it looked like before. These are of when the previous owner was still living here:


And here are some progress photos:









And the finished product:



So now all we need is:
  1. New bedroom furniture from Ikea
  2. A new sink, vanity, light fixture and faucet
  3. And other things...





Sunday, June 17, 2012

Color...finally!

Grant and I finished up the living room/dining room area yesterday! That's it. Here are some pics:



We made a mess.





We really like the color; it turned out great! We're still in the process of hanging pictures and such. I would like to get a lamp stand for by the window and more picture frames. I'm sure that's just an on-going thing that comes with owning a house though.